Hi @2006hazelmurray, thanks for your comments. You got your message in the right place.
The f.lux icon should be at the very top of your computer screen in the Finder taskbar (not in Safari or Firefox), up by the clock. Assuming it's vanished from the taskbar, can you tell me if your screen is still changing color at night?
Pictures and general quickstart guide for reference here:
https://justgetflux.com/news/pages/macquickstart/